How many guys out there are NOT looking for ways to improve their stamina in bed? Judging from the results of numerous studies and sex surveys, I will bet that the answer is NOT many! While there are many problems that can happen in the bedroom, the simple truth is that a LOT of a man's perceived sexual incompetence is rooted in an early ejaculation. This is compounded by the fact that many men are given the mistaken idea that the ability to last very long during sex is the norm. Nothing is further from the truth... The average man typically does NOT last more than 5 minutes during sex. As a matter of fact, between 20 to 30 percent of men around the world are predisposed to climax within 2 to 4 minutes. So if you are not lasting as long as you would like to, know that you are in the majority! Now here's the thing (and what you SHOULD do...) Most men focus on trying to last longer. That is not really a bad thing, because women have a certain sexual response duration that needs to be fulfilled before they can enjoy an orgasm. That duration typically lasts between 7 to 15 minutes. So if you can last that amount of time, your woman will be very happy. But a man's preoccupation with sexual duration has its downsides. For one, you are focusing on quantity instead of quality. The truth is that you CAN actually bring down the amount of time a woman takes to reach an orgasm. How? By FIRST focusing on the things that turn her on. Intercourse is only ONE part of sex, and not necessarily the most important one for a woman! So learn about her "sexual landscape" first, and how you can please her through various means such as foreplay. Once you can achieve this, you will feel less pressured about how long you can last. You will feel less anxious about your performance, and that has the indirect effect of boosting your confidence, and your endurance to boot! Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting the Ejaculation By Command here: Ejaculate On Command.
Monday, January 30, 2012
How To Increase Your Sexual Stamina And Give Her Great Sex Every Time (It's NOT What You Think!)
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How to Permanently End PE, and the Humiliation of Climaxing Too Fast
Do you have a issues with lasting longer in bed? If you do, you may find this article helpful. The simple truth is this: premature ejaculati...