Sunday, December 11, 2011

How to Delay Ejaculation For Men to Last Longer (Do This and Transform Your Sexual Confidence!)

Premature ejaculation is something that sneaks up on nearly every man. But the simple truth is that, although most guys are vulnerable to it, PE usually does not become an issue until we are ready for a relationship with someone. And when premature ejaculation does surface, it can cause a host of problems between couples.

Why do some guys ejaculate too soon?

It all boils down to a man's lack of ability to recognize and identify the sensations that immediately precede an orgasm... until it becomes too late. All men have their own unique "benchmark" or "identifiers" along the sexual arousal scale. If you want to stem an early ejaculation, you need to learn how to associate the sensations at critical points along this scale.

Staying in the moment (here's how)

The key to lasting longer is to acclimatize your brain to be aware of what's going on when you have sex and not be lost when the arousal starts climbing. Many men become too consumed during lovemaking and let the stimulation to get out of control.

Communication is important too. If necessary, tell your partner to STOP what she is doing and let your arousal subside first. When you are already in the throes of pleasure up to the "point of no return", even the slightest movement can trigger the deep-seated nerves in the pelvic area and induce an instant orgasm.

Also, learn how long you should pause or how far you should allow your sensations to slide back before resuming sex again. This takes some practice, but again this is important if you want to keep premature ejaculation at bay.

Accidental spillage if OK!

That said, if you do "spill", don't take it too hard and make a big deal out of it. Say "oops"... there is always another time! If nothing else, this will earn the respect of your partner because you are willing to face up to your sexual inadequacies, and more importantly, because you have the courage and tenacity to work at it!


Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting the Ejaculation By Command here: Ejaculate on Command.

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