Not many men are aware of the true power of this technique that I am going to share here, so pay close attention. While many products have been touted to be the best cure for premature ejaculation, simply changing the manner you have sex can have a tremendous impact on how long you last. In most cases, the ability to prevent a quick ejaculation is predicated on how well you control your sexual arousal right from the start.
"Varying Thrusts"
When having sex, most men tend to engage in monotonous thrusting, thinking that deep penetration is the best way to please a woman. That is a fallacy, and a sure way to make you come to an orgasm in rapid fire time.
When you thrust deeply, the underside of your penis just below the glans (head) is stretched much more than during shallow penetration. This highly sensitive area will experience greater stimulation and arousal and consequently, a quicker ejaculation.
What you should do instead is to vary your thrusts. Start off the intercourse with a greater number of shallow thrusts and gradually follow up with deeper penetrations.
The benefits of this technique are two-fold. Firstly, shallow penetration of 2 to 3 inches into the vagina will considerably reduce your arousal. Secondly, those first few inches in the female anatomy are the most sensitive for a woman, and thus will give her the greatest pleasure. In other words, please her FIRST and pleasure yourself later.
Extending The Pleasure...
If at any point in time you feel yourself getting close to a climax and you still would like to go on longer, simply stop thrusting. Stay still inside her for 30 to 60 seconds. Alternatively you can withdraw from her vagina for the same amount of time before penetrating her again.
The key is to practice and be patient. You may not get it right the first time. But keep at it and you will gain better control over your ejaculation... and give her a more sensational time in bed too!
Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting the Ejaculation By Command here: Ejaculate on Command.