How To Deal With Premature Ejaculation - 97% Of Men Overlook This Strategy (But You Shouldn't!)

How To Deal With Premature Ejaculation - 97% Of Men Overlook This Strategy (But You Shouldn't!)

Let's face it. Out of every ten men, as many as four have to deal with the unfortunate issue of premature ejaculation. For most of us, our sexual confidence and our ability to last during sex go hand in hand. And when our ability to please our woman in bed becomes questionable, our confidence gets bruised. Worst still, many guys shy away from sex due to the accompanying embarrassment of coming too soon.

But while PE can be a really embarrassing problem to deal with, for most men, it is actually surprising easy to overcome. The illusion of the magic number (and the YouTube analogy)... Many men focus too much on the specific duration they should last. They fret over the fact that they cannot last like porn actors do.

The simple truth is, sex that lasts too long can be painful and uncomfortable for the woman! The lubrication in the vagina typically dries up from prolonged thrusting. So what's the magic number, you asked? Simple! In most cases, intercourse just needs to last as long as a You Tube clip to be satisfying. That means 3-5 minutes on average, not including the amount of foreplay time. Heightening female arousal... the gateway to HER sexual fulfillment Many men overlook this simple strategy to overcome premature ejaculation.

One of the best ways to banish PE is to focus on heightening and accelerating your woman's sexual arousal first. Allow sufficient foreplay to works its magic so that it improves her ability to have an orgasm... and fast! Unlike men, a woman is blessed to have numerous erogenous areas on her body - besides her genitals. These are the "hot spots" that will get her going really fast, if you give them your due attention. In fact, if you learn to give her an orgasm BEFORE intercourse, the confidence that you get will naturally help enhance your stamina - and this is especially powerful for guys suffering from "performance anxiety"!

How to deal with Premature Ejaculation

How To Prepare Her For Anal Sex,

Prepare Her For Anal Pleasure

Usually, the horror stories we hear about anal sex revolve around the guy trying it on his partner even before she is ready. Sometimes, the guy may even spring a surprise on her... causing things to get really messy (in a bad way). The result? Anal sex is given a bad label, shelved and never talked about again in the entire relationship.

Yes, anal pleasure is all about adequate preparation. Not just physical preparation but also mental preparation. In fact, if you can mentally warm your lover up to the idea of hot, lustful anal sex... then most of the work is already done! The key is to take things slowly and give it to her really BAD only after she's ready.

Relax – Anal play is never about force. It's always about full consent between two loving parties. Here's a recap of the facts you need to educate your lover about anal intercourse...

1. Anal play can make your lover feel good – Since her anus contains a rich number of highly sensitive nerve endings... all of which are intensely stimulated during anal sex.
2. Anal play can feel pleasurably tight for you as well – The human anus contains a ring of strong sphincter muscles that contract and relax... providing a firm gripping sensation for your penis.
3. Anal sex is not dirty or messy if done correctly. It's not painful if you do the usual preparations and ease yourself into it. If it's painful instead of pleasurable... you're not doing it right! You do the same preparations for anal intercourse as you would with vaginal penetration... the basics are the same!

Since so many of my readers have been curious about straight anal play with no where to turn to... I couldn't possibly leave them in the lurch, could I?

Instead of letting everyone be carried away by all the misinformation and half-truths out there... I decided to create my own comprehensive course on this VERY subject! Read more : Anal Pleasure for her.